How To Use A Sex Doll: A Beginner’s Guide!

by | Dec 19, 2021 | General | 2 comments

Buying a sex doll is one of the best investments you will ever make.

You are not only buying an instrument of pleasure, but you are also acquiring a new friend, company and why not, some love and attention.

Someone who won’t complain, won’t get fat, and will always be there for you.

If it’s your first time, don’t worry!

We sex doll lovers have already been there, so we have prepared this guide for beginners so that they know how to use a sex doll or a torso sex doll and get the most out of it.

How To Use A Sex Doll Step-By-Step Guide

How To Use A Sex Doll Step By Step Guide

How To Use A Sex Doll – Step By Step Guide: Image credited to

Let’s say you have just received your doll, a huge box of about 80 pounds whose interior promises a lot of fun.

But hey! Hold on to your excitement…

You’ll have plenty of time to share with her, so first things first, take her out of the package properly so you won’t damage a single inch of her beautiful body.

Step 1. Unpacking Your Sex Doll

Unpacking Sex Doll

Step 1: Unpacking Your Sex Doll

You will need a fairly spacious place as the box is usually large since your doll is well protected to avoid any bumps or damage during the trip.

It is necessary to open your package carefully, using a cutter or scissors but without introducing it deeply, it should only be enough to cut the package and the adhesive tape that the box should have on it.

Step 2. Take Out Your Love Doll

Take Out Your Love Doll

Step 2: Take Out Your Love Doll

After you open the box, you will need to wash your hands, as you don’t want to get your perfect doll skin dirty, so grooming will never be a problem.

With the box open, you’ll see that your doll will be covered with a blanket and that her entire body will be wrapped in foam.

Once you start taking your doll out, you will notice that on your doll’s thighs, there will be another package, wrapped in foam.

You must be especially careful with this one because it is the head of your doll and you do not want to mistreat its face.

When you remove the foam covering the head, only one bag will remain between you and the doll’s head.

You can keep this bag to store your doll’s head when it is not in use but it is your choice.

Step 3. Get Rid Of The Foam

To get rid of the foam, you need to use a pair of scissors.

But don’t forget that you must be extremely careful because any rubbing could deteriorate your doll.

Watch this video, here the guide for unpacking.

You can leave aside the rest of the accessories that the box brings because your doll will need all your attention.

Take care of your fingers, your nails, and every part of your body when removing the foam.

Step 4. Out Of The Box

To get it out, you must be delicate.

If she is a realistic style doll (that her height is like that of a real girl), then hug her body and stand her up…

But only if your doll comes with that property, check that it has the option ‘ability to stand up’ (the three pins on the foot).

Remember that the skeleton is very well articulated and this allows the doll to adopt very realistic postures.

Doll With Ability To Stand

Doll With Ability To Stand

With a little imagination, she can look very human.

Although for durability, you should not place the doll in a position where the skin is too stretched for a long time.

Although the elasticity of the TPE material is wonderful, excessive stretching over a long period can result in deformation.

Step 5. Install Your Doll’s Head

The head must be installed in a very specific way so that it does not run the risk of being damaged in the process, so here you also have a video guide.

Install Your Dolls Head

Install Your Doll’s Head

Once you have your doll’s head installed and her wig is on, you can dress her up and go.


Your doll is ready to be used.

But that’s not all, the adventure of how to use a sex doll is just beginning.

Step 6. Have Fun With Your Sex Doll!

Have Fun With Your Sex Doll

Step 6. Have Fun With Your Sex Doll!

Before use, it is recommended to immediately wash the doll to remove production waste.

Apply Johnson baby oil.

When Baby Oil has been completely absorbed, apply talc or corn-starch.

Sex can be had with or without a condom.

But you must keep in mind that your doll, no matter how realistic it is and even though it gives you a sensation similar to human skin, it cannot lubricate.

So it could irritate the penis due to friction.

*** Extremely Important: Lube Your Doll

For the sexual use of your doll, only water-based lubricant is recommended. Silicone-based lubricants may damage the TPE. (Here’s where you can find the best lube for TPE Dolls)

The anal opening is usually not sealed, so it is recommended that a condom be used to prevent liquids from reaching the skeleton.

Full lubrication is recommended if a condom is used, to prevent the condom from breaking.

Take special care with the clothes you are going to put on your doll, some clothes could produce stains on the skin due to the discoloration of the garment, humidity, temperature, or a badly made dye of the garment.

This is outside the correct use and therefore outside the factory warranty.

Stains can be removed with TPE stain remover.

Step 7. How To Use A Sex Doll

How To Use A Sex Doll In Doggy Position

How To Use A Sex Doll In Doggy Position

Do not put weight on your doll’s hands (as in the doggy position) during sexual use.

The doll is not designed for this sexual position and the weight could damage the hands.

You can use the doggy position, putting pillows under the torso to support the weight.

At the same time, the knees should be positioned on a soft surface.

Avoid sharp objects or kneading with excessive force (do not squeeze her breasts too hard for example).

Do not expose the doll to sunlight for too long as ultraviolet rays and excess heat accelerate the deterioration of the TPE material and therefore shorten the life of the doll’s skin.

If a wrinkle or pressure mark occurs, apply a hot towel to the wrinkled area.

The towel should be dry and not more than 40 degrees Celsius.

Step 8. Storage

Design Couch Doll Storage Case

Design Couch Doll Storage Case, Image Credited To Earth Erotic

When not in use, the doll can be stored in the original cardboard box or flight case, preferably in a fairly dry place, neither too hot nor too cold.

TPE can begin to deform at temperatures of 50-55 degrees Celsius.

The doll can also be stored vertically.

If the body has the option of standing (all three screws in the foot) the doll can be standing constantly, although the presence of a wall or support element is always recommended.

Bodies that are not too heavy can be hung from a horizontal bar (e.g. in a closet).

To protect your doll during storage, use soft, non-staining materials.

Soft blankets and foam mattresses are among the most popular and recommended materials. If you use a foam mattress, it is advisable to leave a space for the buttocks and possibly the breasts, to avoid the risk of flattening them.

Step 9. Cleaning A Sex Doll

Dust and dirt can be cleaned with normal antibacterial washing detergent. Clean gently and be careful with nails and rough materials that may affect or scratch the surface.

The doll can be bathed in the tub provided that the head is not submerged (water could leak through the junction point of the head and body).

When it is time to dry the doll, do it carefully and once it is very dry, apply some powder.

This way the doll should look as if it was new and it will stay that way for a longer period.


Below is a quick video on how to clean your love doll:
Take A Bath With Your Love Doll

Take A Bath With Your Love Doll

The vaginal, anal, and oral orifices of the doll need to be cleaned after each use to prevent the growth of bacteria.

If the vagina is fixed, use the vaginal irrigator provided, with antibacterial soap.

When the opening is completely clean, rinse the canal with water (use the handpiece again) until all the soap has been removed. Dry the canal thoroughly.

If the vagina is removable, it can be washed with running water and antibacterial soap.

The same procedure is recommended for the anal cavity, except for those dolls where the hole is not sealed. To dry the holes, we recommend using tampons.

Once the cavity is dry if you wish to disinfect it, use 3% hydrogen peroxide. Spray some on a tampon and leave it in for half an hour.


Here’s a quick video on how to clean your doll’s vagina:
Clean Vagina Of A Real Doll

Clean Vagina Of A Real Doll

Never use alcohol to disinfect because it will damage your doll from the inside out, as alcohol dries TPE severely.

Regularly sprinkle your doll with talcum powder or corn-starch to prevent the skin from becoming a little bit sticky.

Never use alcohol to clean or treat your doll. Alcohol dries out the TPE/silicone too much, potentially increasing the risk of lacerations.

Please note that Vaseline, Nivea cream, and baby oil can remove original makeup from your doll’s face, chest, and vagina, as well as any self-applied makeup. Avoid application to these areas or reduce contact to a minimum.

Conclusion For How To Use A Sex Doll

A sex doll can become your best friend, your confidant, and an undeniable fun partner who will always be there for you.

That’s why you must know how to use a sex doll so that you treat it the right way and give it the right care to spend as much time with you as possible.

Remember that although she looks like a human girl she can be more delicate and sometimes requires special treatment.

We hope that with this guide for beginners you will be clear about how to use a sex doll.

If you want to know more, we are already preparing an advance guide for you, so that you can go from being a beginner to being a professional.

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  1. love doll

    Thanks for how to wash the sex doll,what is the temperature do you request?

    • Sexdollogy Admin

      We use warm water, about 40°C – 50°C (104°F – 122°F)

      However you can’t kill bacteria/germs with this temperature. With this temperature, you only can clean the dirt on your sex doll.

      You need other cleaning agent such as alcohol or acetone to kill the bacteria, especially when you clean the orifices.

      But you must make sure the material of your doll. If it’s silicone, you can clean it with acetone. Make sure you don’t use acetone to clean TPE doll because it will melt your doll and turn the “Glory Hole” into “The Hole Of Nightmare”.

      My best advice it to read the guide book when you receive your sex doll. The guide book will tell you what’s the material and how to maintain your sex doll.

      Hope this help.



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